I came across this blog post and found it very interesting! I often felt I was doing something wrong because I couldn’t “just relax”. (Until I learned of our very substantial issues.) Anyways, I wanted to reblog it because I feel it gives hope to couples trying or “not trying”. Enjoy!

the infertile chemist

This post was primarily inspired by a recent, lovely post by Jane at Mine to Command who confronted the myth that stress causes infertility. She delves into the medical literature on the subject, so I won’t provide my own (undoubtedly less eloquent) rehashing of what she’s said there. Go read it! Then come back, if you like.

The myth that stress causes infertility is a pervasive one. And, its logical consequence – namely, that infertiles should “Just relax, and you’ll get pregnant – has lead to a laundry list of charming little chestnuts of advice including:

  • Just adopt, and you’ll get pregnant.
  • Go on vacation, and you’ll get pregnant.
  • Get drunk, and you’ll get pregnant.
  • Don’t try so hard, and you’ll get pregnant.

and so on…

This myth originated – and continues to be fueled – by the observation that indeed many infertile couples get pregnant 

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